When Love Turns Unhealthy: As a Woman, Take Charge of Your Life Because It’s the Key to Every Step in Your Future.
I have a friend in high school; she is a good friend of mine. Sometimes friendship isn’t just about saying, “She is my best friend.”
It’s about sharing the happy and sorrowful times together it’s almost like a marriage.
Before you agree to be friends with someone who seriously wants to be your friend in a safe way, think it through. It’s not just “Yes, I agree to be your friend,” and later you neglect them.
Sometimes friends are like angels sent from heaven.
Ohhhh, I almost forgot what my topic is based on. I just got emotional thinking about how sweet it is to have someone to lean on in your most desperate times.
This friend of mine has been in a relationship for seven years with a guy. The guy is decent, and let’s just say he has everything. Apart from that, they love each other.
Did you know a relationship can look really good but still not be healthy? They got intimate almost every day. I mean, think…
It was like, wooo girl, that’s bad, and the relationship was not healthy.
I let her make decisions herself. She eventually asked for a break I mean, a little bit of time away from the relationship things.
And they never got in contact with each other for three years, until fate brought them together again. But it was already a long-distance relationship. Yeah, it’s convenient for some people because we are all different.
It turns out all the relationships both of them got into after their separation always failed. It’s funny, right? (smiles)
But never trust someone you haven’t seen for a long time, because people can go from people you know to people you don’t. (I think Selena Gomez was right about this!) Silly me, was I actually singing? (laughs)
Back to their story… They got together again and started with their lovey-dovey moments
The guy actually started behaving completely different from before. He always talked about the past, not the important parts, but their intimate times.
I know it’s actually boring to have a man who talks about the same thing every day (sigh).
One day he completely blew the mountains up. He started demanding her to go naked on a video call. (Oh my gosh!) That’s actually dangerous.
And it’s blackmailing, he wouldn’t talk to her until she did that.
As a woman, you have every right to say no to things you don’t want or don’t feel comfortable with, and to take charge in your relationship.
They fought over it for some months, and my friend actually stopped texting him.
He didn’t even bother; he blocked and cut my friend off from his contacts.
A perpetrator didn’t get what he wanted (lol)
As a woman, take charge of your life because it’s the key to every step in your future.
Thanks for reading.
Leemah 💎💎💎
