Because being real is much relief than becoming perfect.
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It sounds strange to say that it came up into my mind this thought that I want to be flawlful not because of “who I am” but because of “what I want to be”.
Currently we are living in a situation where we want to act like a perfect person in terms of work, responsibility, behavior, dealing situations, handling problems. Because all we hears from others is that “don’t make any mistake, you have to make it right”. Maybe in one shot, I don’t know.
And that situation weighs us into a heavy thoughts of “Becoming a perfect person”
We see, from our younger self to our adulthood, we always have that image in our mind to become the best person in handling every responsibility maybe because we are eager to hear from our siblings, parents, relatives, society that they have a person in household who is mature, capable of dealing with things.
Generally, it doesn’t bother us to become that version, but what happen when you are in the process of becoming that. You see a a lot of changes, A change in the behavior, change in the attitude, change in the mindset, sometimes for better or sometimes for worse.
But all you need to look at is how good you have become while building yourself into that. And in that process, we tend to look at things in a perfect way.
In that perspective, we often find ourselves in burden, a burden of thoughts, burden of doing things, burden of acting in a perfect sense, burden of loading ourselves in a ton of responsibility.
And suddenly one terrible mistake and it whole comes to a point where we find ourselves in that state where we wouldn’t think of ourselves.
“We lose our imperfection while chasing the perfect one for the society”
Because a perfect person will never reach into the height of where a flawful person can because of his freedom of thoughts, thinking of unimaginable things, getting into a zone of insensibility and then doing work that one can ever imagined of.
A perfect one doesn’t want to make a mistake, doesn’t want to be in an uncomfortable position where’s a flawful one never thinks of that scenario in that sense.
All he knows is that he is free to travel with that thought process of becoming a better by making mistakes and progressing further without taking any burden from himself and from the society.
At the end of it what will happen, either you will make it or you will learn.
So, become a flawed version of yourself in a world which chase perfection”.
