Am I in love? hmm? Everyone has asked this question to themselves, but do you actually know if you are in love or if it is just infatuation.
Here is the truth: No, you won’t know if you are in love ever unless you actually experience it. Care, Passion, waiting hours for just a glimpse of a person or buying gift, these are the form of love but not actual love. Love is something when you know no matter what, this is my person. I am pretty sure everyone feels this way when they start to feel affection towards a person. They can do anything for that person. Trust me, I have seen many incident like this in my life. When you actually find your person, you just don’t show your dull side but also accept theirs. It may take a year or a decade and it’s totally fine to take that time because it’s your life and you need to be sure before decided your better half. Also, someone shows their true colors when they actually comfortable with you. Then, it will be your decision if you actually want that person or not. Here are the few tips which you can use to determine it.
For example: Your partner usually waits for you to eat together but not anymore. Does he/she loves me at all?
This is a very common question. To be honest, it depends on your perspective. If your partner is really hungry but you are gonna take some time then what’s wrong having him/her eating before you. You love them and if you are in their place you would want the same thing.
You might think now what if he eats without asking. And again, it depends on your perspective, you can talk to your partner and explain how you feel and what you want and if he really cares for you, he will take care of you both eating together and if not, then either you two get settled on something or may be this is the time you want to think practically.
I know you must be thinking me being so negative but trust me, truth is bitter but accepting it before is gets worse is a better idea.
Lemme know how you guys feel. We can help someone getting through a tough situation or help them in deciding.
Toodles………………………….
