What “it’s wasn’t the right time” really means and why you should stop believing it.
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When we were talking last Saturday, in what turned out to be another converation that would bring my relationship with James to another end, there was something that he said that bothered me more than most things.
Of course it was heartbreaking to hear that he didn’t feel comfortable here, didn’t want to be here anymore, and our relationship has come as far as it will ever go.
Those things were devastating, but when I asked him:
“When were you going to tell me? How long were you going to let us live like this?”
He said that he’d tried… but it never felt like the right time.
Well, he’s been trying since before Christmas.
We faked our way through Christmas in front of my family. We were in that awful platonic state we were in for a month or so that really was worse than just breaking up and having him leave.
It really hurts to be in physical proximity to the person you love and want to be with and feel like they don’t want you to…
