“Don’t set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.” — Penny Reid
So the point is, never invest yourself in toxic people, they will break you into pieces, they’ll tear you apart, so it takes years and years to get back together!
Never burn yourself for anyone else to glitter, people who are yours will remain yours! So cheer them, embrace them, they’ll never let you burn, they will never set you on fire to keep themselves warm, they appreciate the balance, so that there won’t be anything that makes you feel used, pleased, and things like that! So please open your eyes, take off the red glasses to see reality, and find the people who are yours.
How magnificently it is orated: when you wear the rose-tinted glasses, all red flags look like flags!
Therefore, take off the rose-tinted glasses, see the other side! So there mustn’t be an exchange of self-respect, you know, love, care, that are long-lasting when they are two-way! Otherwise, either side must always be burnt or feel burned somewhere down the line! People come and people go, it’s not a big deal, people who appreciate you appreciate them, people who care about you, do the same, people who love you, so you too, people who stand by you, stand by them! Those who know this and keep this balance are yours!
“The right people don’t drain you — they refill you.” — Unknown
I categorize people into three main categories. Foremost, the people who see you in pain don’t want to engage with you or show any empathy to you, and they just walk away. I respect these people; at least they are honest, they are real. I love these people! Then come the people who see you in pain, who know everything, but they just cling to you, can’t help you anyway, and just keep you more drained, and they know the reason why they are doing so. In my opinion, liberate them, since I understood and knew them, I liberate myself! At last, there comes a category that I love the most, people and concepts around which today’s talk was, the people who are yours, they see you in pain, they take it by themselves, their eyes say everything, their heart speaks everything, no matter in what way they are yours, how they are making you alive but you feel them, you feel yourself loved, respected, cared, supported, they just take everything of your on their shoulders, cheer them, respect them, care them, embrace them and say them I look after you, never lose them, they are rare, they are rare gem!
“If someone brings peace to your chaos, don’t ever take them for granted — rare gems don’t return once lost.” — Unknown
Noshad Jaipal — Soul Stories!
