Nothing kills arousal faster than pressure.
This obsession straight men have with being able to give orgasms is an illness; there is no other way to reconcile this peculiar motivation.
I get it…
It feels good knowing that your partner had a good time in the bedroom. But when having a good time is contingent upon a fleeting, intense peak of sexual pleasure that lasts anywhere from a few seconds to a minute, then we have a problem.
Case in point:
My wife, 24f, just told me 24m that she has been faking her orgasms for 5+ years.
I have no idea where to start. My wife and I met in high school when we were 17 and 18.
We would spend every moment together in and out of school, just as friends at first. We grew quite fond of each other’s presence until one day, I asked her if she would like to start a relationship, and she said yes. And so we began the best relationship I’ve ever had.
2 years down the road, we get married, and we now have a little one. I absolutely love the girl I fell in love with and the woman she is now, but she’s been hiding something from me. She’s been lying to me for years. I would…
