Choosing a partner is perhaps one of the most consequential choices you’ll make in your life, EVER, outside of perhaps what to study or where to live.
If you choose right, life is easy.
When you see your wife you sigh with relief, you smile, you know she understands you and virtually nothing will get her to stop standing by your side.
If you choose wrong, life is an endless battle.
Your heart rate goes up the second you park the car, you prepare yourself for the inevitable arguing that’s about to ensue, and you have full knowledge nothing you do is right.
With the right partner, peace follows you.
With the wrong partner, there is no rest — anywhere.
After nearly a decade of serious relationships, tens of thousands spent on therapy and hundreds of books.
This is how I choose my partners wisely.
It Starts With You
This is the best relationship Advice I’ve ever received in my 30 years of life:
Whatever you want in a partner — become it.
In order to get the opportunity to choose a good partner you first must become a good partner.
