“Why do you always find fault with something? Can’t you for once see the good in my parents?”
It’s heartbreaking to hear those words from your partner with whom you have dreamed of an amazing future. Living with toxic inlaws will force you into a situation where you remain the villain in the eyes of your loved one.
In Indian households, women move in to her in-laws house after marriage and live with her husband. The tradition has never been favourable to Indian women.
Let’s leave that to another story. Here I’d like to address the most important problem faced by married women. When the groom’s parents turn hostile to the bride, she becomes a wreck. The adjusting time extends beyond a few months, thereby exhausting her.
Not always the man who married her is the problem. Many times, he struggles to love his wife without losing the affection for his parents. He finds it hard to support anyone in this matter. There are a few who ace this with the right balance. However, many fail in the process, creating complications for his marriage life.
If you want to deal with toxic inlaws, I’m here to offer you relevant suggestions.